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When does a friendship with a married woman turn from innocent into affair. What is the crossover point?

I had a friendship going with another married woman for the past year (i refer to this as Stage I on my scale). Both our spouses (my now ex) knew about it, it was very innocent and only involved occasional lunch (with kids) or a trip to zoo. I have recently divorced for unrelated matter.
We have picked up or realtionship now with daily email correspondance, just talking about various personal matters (Stage II). She keeps it from her husband, although nothing illicit has gone on. But we know its probably taboo to do this.
Yesterday, for first time, she came over to my apartment alone without kids, and we just chatted for 2 hours. Her husband called, she didnt answer phone (Stage III).

I really want to see her again, not to have an affair with, but just to hang out with (movie, or dinner/bar). (stage IV)

Is what we are doing an affair? Or does it only get the affair label once sex/intimacy gets involved (Stage V)?

I think you know where this is leading or you wouldn't have attached "stages" to your comments. You've seen it progressing over time. Are you hoping that it will turn into an affair? Clearly the two of you have crossed a line bc she is keeping her interactions with you from her husband. Be careful bc you are both heading into very dangerous territory. If she has problems or needs that are not being addressed at home, you can't be the one to fix them for her, and having an affair is definitely not going to help her either. As it is, it seems like she is having an emotional affair with you already. She is relying on you for things that she should really be sharing with her husband. Think very carefully about what you are engaged in - I think you know the answer already.

Celia Cruz from "Affair in Havana" 1957

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Will a relationship work from an affair?

The couple are both married to other people, seem to fall in love and can't live without each other. The girl and her husband split up after he finds out, not because he wanted to, the girl did. Now, a year later , btw this couple has been seeing each other for nearly 3 years, the guy is wanting to leave his wife to be with the girl. They have both tried to stop this relationship because it's not right, and they want to do the right thing, but they can't go longer than a week without each other.

Okay it is going to sound crazy but here goes nothing I want to say it can work. I have seen a relationship of grow in this way before. The only problem is this you always know where the person came from. That is the problematic part of the equation. You are always in the back of your mind saying "They cheated on they spouse before what is going to stop them from cheating on me?"

That is hard on a relationship but it can work. I wish you the best of luck and just in case you are the wife being left if it isn't love let him go.

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